Navies frequently put out, um, 'optimistic' numbers on ship speeds. A number of French and Italian ships were supposedly able to attain 36-39 knots at sea trials before WW2; left unsaid was that no guns or ammo were aboard, and that the final loaded ship speed was as much as 6 knots less. The US also put out that its nuclear submarines were capable of as much as 42 knots when in reality they could make a bit over 30; silence is much more valuable to a sub than speed.
Nuclear carriers can steam at high speeds for long periods of time. They no longer have to use high speed to launch aircraft (though the breeze over the flight deck doesn't hurt) and instead need strategic speed - the ability to run from California to Japan, or Virginia to the Middle East, in a short period of time.
Last information I saw was that the later generations of nuclear carriers had thicker lines (to carry more stuff like bombs and fuel) and therefore could run in the 30-32 knot range. There just isn't any tactical need for higher speed, and tonnage not spent on engines can be used for jet fuel, bombs and planes.
With any steam-driven ship you can exceed the suggested limits and work the engines harder, at the risk of catastrophic failure (steam lines go boom; turbines shed blades) or serious wear-and-tear, and for little gain. Because of the rules of hydrodynamics, a ship can usually reach 75% of its rated speed at half-power (that's a very loose approximation and should be taken with a bag of salt, but it will do). It is the last little bit of speed that needs huge amounts of extra power. Battlecruisers were able to steam like a cruiser (their intended prey) but at a high cost in tonnage:
Ship type         Ship name    Tonnage   Engine SHP   Speed     Armament   Armor Belt
Battleship        Iron Duke      30,380     29,000         21 kts     10x13.5"     12"
Battlecruiser    Lion              29,680     70,000          27 kts     8x13.5"       6"
Battleship        Koenig          28,200     31,000          21 kts     10x12"        12"
Battlecruiser    Seydlitz         25,200     67,000          26 kts     10x11"        10"
Cruiser            Arethusa         3520      40,000          28.5 kts  3x 6", 4x4"  3"
Destroyer        Paragon            900      22,500          29.5        3x4"           -
 
Fast Battleship Hood             47,500   144,000          31 kts     8x15"         12"
'Destroyer'       Le Fantasque  3400       81,000          45 kts     5x5.4"        -
These ships are all rough contemporaries, built around 1909-1912 (Arethusa and Paragon from 1912-13, Hood from 1920 and Le Fantasque from 1933). This not only shows some differences in British and German theories as to what a capital ship should be, it shows the immense extra power needed to achieve a small amount of extra speed. (Not shown is the superior German subdivision scheme or the British practice of piling propellant and shells in the turrets). The German engineering plant used 3 props instead of 4; the middle shaft was pretty much wasted and usable only as a spare or for full power. Note the extreme high speed of Le Fantasque - three times the tonnage of contemporary destroyers, and the huge size and power of Hood. 
Now admittedly, space maneuvering must be different from steaming over water. It may well be that a hyperdrive (or whatever we use as thrusters) works better for bigger ships than small ones - I have no way of predicting any of that. But on the water, very few navies built small slow ships - big ships needed guns and armor, small ships needed maneuverability and speed, and above all ships were built to work at specific jobs. Cruisers and destroyers defended against subs (and aircraft), or made high-speed runs to get in close and attack with torpedos. And ships of a given generation all had the same range of speeds so they could efficiently work together.
 
35 mph is about 31.5 - 32 knots (a knot is 1.1 mph roughly).
 
Sorry for the lecture - naval history is a long-time passion.