I think I know what you are saying. If you are crazy no one wants to be around you. They humor you as long aS THEY don't have to hang out with you.
But if you are trusting and nice most people take advantage of that.
Girls say they want nice guys, but they don't seem to practice that.
For the most part being nice only seems to work in the church world.
When you tell bad people you don't fight they don't care.
People tell me they never been a fight, but that would only work in my life if you were really mean.
I noticed the worst people will tell me they are good people.