Todd, it was not because of you, at the point that LA decided to take the path chosen any and all validation of perspective was thrown to the wind. You are not driving her fingers as she types and you are not her keeper so please do not take on what she alone owns.
"Intent seems to possibly have met result" this time around....
That must be dealt with before any attempt to "come back" would even be considered tactful or successful to say the least.
If she decided to, she could take Jafo up on his offer and this could be put to rest in some fashion I am sure, I would not presume to suggest what that outcome might be which is reached.
But Jafo would not indicate an email would be necessary unless a line of discussing the subject was not open.
anyway... sorry to see this happened, not sure exactly how or why because I have not fully read the thread and after her last post I doubt I will. But I will say this, at some point people need to leave well enough alone there are Admins, WizOps and Moderators along with Stardock personal whom frequent the site which can and will deal with situations as needs be.
Some posts almost seem to border on Xenophobia being applied to the site...

And yes I do understand that I have taken part in some nasty drag down roll in the dirt threads and I have been working on keeping that to a null factor even when I become protective or upset in general with a thread and the person posting it...
Tolerance is a good thing, many of us here started out on the opposite side of it and slowly moved over to stand behind it, we need to give what was freely given to us in return...
mmm... OK someone shoot me now so I shut up
/me spies Kona "Kona no! put down the gun and back away from the Duck Blind!

*BANG*"
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